Standing up for my life, myself... my future..



I'm floating in limbo these last couple months and I fought trying to go back to old habits when I couldnt figure out what I was craving for when I went into the store and went  looking for snacks or food and coming up empty for anything that matched what I truly wanted. I caved here and there when things sounded good, and I've fought back and forth on the last 5-10 lbs since reaching my 50lb mark over a year ago now.  I haven't tired to do much but just exist this year so far. I did the things I needed to get by and also the things I needed so that I wouldnt totally fail at this thing I have started.

I have come to realize that yes the saying "Old habits die hard" is true but in the end I dont think they ever die. I think its our mentality of changing what we do everyday, of how we react to each thing that happens to us in our lifes that dicdates how the things that do or dont happen shape us and our life around them.

I've spent so much of my life taking people's opinons and advice to heart like it was the "almightly" himself telling me that this was how life or I were suppose to be. In the end I have seen that doing so only made it that much harder to see and to feel my true self, and in a way I never really discovered or searched for that either. In some way I might be emotionally or even mentally younger than my true age because I never "truly" got to grow up in a way. I think maybe is why half the time I feel like I'm so far behind in life, but also I realize in that I am comparing myself to others again, who's lives are not mine and in turn I can not say I'm here nor there (late or ahead) in this life of mine.

When it comes to trying to find what I really want from this life, I start getting ahead of myself I start asking things like do I wanna stay in California forever or move back to Colorado one day( the only other place I'd live) and than I get ahead of myself thinking," Well how will that happen?" I need to remind myself that right now this moment: and the day, week, month and year that has been set ahead of me are the things that matter right now. Truly I (nor anyone else) is every given another moment than the one you are living now . You can't count all the time you've had before because it cannot not be changed and its done with and you cannot count your future or your tomorrow as we call it because it hasn't happened yet and nor do we know will it for any of us.

This moment, I know this
     I am not comfortable in the body I am in, I feel like it isnt a match to how I personally am and I want to change that. I want to be fit healthy and strong, I dont think I've ever said this but I've always seen myself as a tomboy in at least I like to be active and could hang with the boys any day but also be the girl who loves a strong guy who can pick me up and carry me off to bed if ya know what I mean haha.

     This craving I mentioned before is more for a life outside these walls of my apartment building. When I freak because I'm not quite sure what to do in the career aspect of my life I know that part of figuring that out is to get back into it and truly let myself get invovled in the work I do get, and the jobs I do and see where that takes me. In the end I know if its not something I want to do forever I will figure out that quickly I'm sure.